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sukibenders · 3 months ago
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"Penelope has insecurities!" As an excuse for her harming others because of those said insecurities falls very flat when it puts the character's, who live during a time of few options especially if you were a women, at risk. And even with her insecurities, her lashing out and hurting people should be held in the same regard as how some view Cressida, who didn't get the luxury of a view into her home life until s3, unlike Penelope, and while it still has people calling out this behavior, although rightfully so, it often still includes denying that Penelope needs to take accountability as well.
#some on twitter said how in fandom yt characters will get a pass for hurting other characters just bc of their insecurities#which is very true when you look at how some to this day still talk about marina with a lot of misogynoir rhetoric just to defend pen#like how can you say “support morally grey or complex female characters” but then shit on marina left & right while erasing/woobifying pen'#own complexities? it doesn't make sense#i would find pen much more enjoyable if her complexities were acknowledged and the harm she did was called out & corrected#but i can't even enjoy spaces like that without some of her fans jumping into the frey and painting it as a crime against them#if you reflect that heavily on a character that's fine but don't get mad when other people don't see it the same way as you#especially poc who have to see pen not only call a kate (and simon) “beast” or constantly make petty brutal remarks about queen charlotte#for no reason as well as use abliest remarks to refer to the king george who suffers a debilitating mental illness#there was no reason for her to do all of that besides being deeply insecure that it makes her harm others who don't even know her#calling that out isn't a bad thing 😭#and yeah while i like/enjoy cressida i can call her out for her behavior toward pen & others even tho i understand it#i could even do the same for pen but see my prior points#the “let female characters be complex” crowd are (not always but sometimes) the first to remove these complexities and it's frustrating!#anti penelope featherington#bridgerton#pen stans don't interact bc this clearly says anti#made this post after people on twitter got on my nerves & created sob stories that ain't never happened just to make whitewash pen
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retordedd · 8 months ago
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I never use this blog because the eddsworld fandom is genuinely the only fandom I've been completely fucking miserable trying to engage with. It's full of trans people and yet the community is SO hostile towards non-afab or non masc aligned in some way trans people. I've had people blatantly refused to respect my pronouns after saying they would. I've been misgendered in a server full of trans people where literally no one else was misgendered because there were pronoun roles. In that same server, while I was uplifting trans people making jokes about being proud of their bodies, they made fun of me for not having breasts. I've had multiple people debate my boundaries like it's a topic of discussion because I asked not to be called dude, a GENDERED TERM. I've had people gang up on me to the point of tears because I dared to describe my experiences being raised with an unconventional relationship to gender. I've been accused of holding grudges and being aggressive for even daring to speak up when I'm tired of being treated this way
And these events don't refer to a bunch of random assholes, they refer to people well known in the fandom. People I've seen on multiple servers. People whose names you say and it gets recognized
The eddsworld fandom has a HUGE transmisogyny problem and it needs to be discussed. The way I constantly feel unsafe when in a fandom surrounded by trans people is completely unacceptable
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onthevirgooftears · 1 year ago
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not to be insane or anything but it really pisses me off when people say whit killed arei 💀 it is objectively never that serious but everytime i see someone come up with a theory or whatever it just shows such a fundamental misunderstanding of his character and not that I'm a veteran or anything but i just wanted to right some wrongs.
whit is not a killer. he exists in a sphere of kindness and prosperity and nothing else. people only think he's suspicious because we've been dispositioned to think every 'nice' character in danganronpa is secretly evil. whit does not have a facade, he's truly and 100% a good person.
looking back at some of his character defining moments it's so striking that he was one of the only people to give his kindness to the two people who were at the time not very nice people themselves. its striking that he doesn't reveal charles' secret in the first trial until he feels as though charles is comfortable enough for everyone to know and how he does the same thing with david in the second trial because it simply isn't his secret to tell.
he extends kindness to those who probably don't deserve it and actively is willing to put aside his own personal grievances in order to comfort someone when they’re in need. like, it's insane to me that you can look at all of that say "yep 💀 that guys definitely the killer!" HES A GOOD PERSON like literally what more do i have to say.
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chirpsythismorning · 1 year ago
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A boy being interested in Will would be amazing the only thing that could make it more amazing imo would be Will having a smidge of interest back so milkmaids ain't doing nothing but helping with the manifesting.
I am totally down for Will being hit on and either (a) having no clue it’s happening so he’s just going along with it none the wiser or (b) figuring out what’s going on pretty quickly and choosing to play along casually in banter bc some cute dude is flirting with him and not some cute girl (finally!!).
In both of those scenarios Mike is witnessing it experiencing the 5 stages of grief 😭
AND WHAT IF it took a puzzle tales twist??! With the guy being brought up in a convo with Will and Mike, with either Will mentioning him casually or Mike bringing the guy up looking uncomfortable, and Will being like ‘is it really that hard to believe someone could like me, Mike?’ THE ANGST!
I just love tasteful angst (rain fight/rink-o-mania fight are peak angst) and that scenario would apply to the rules of tasteful angst so I’m all for it.
Tbh I don’t think it’ll happen tho 😭 This is all assuming Will would have down time to even interact with a random guy while they’re in between conflicts, which I doubt.
But all I’m saying is, worst case scenario being jealous Mike is not an issue for me AT ALL 😅
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annierosaart · 7 months ago
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questioninglogic · 1 month ago
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my sister and i are doing our watch-through of danny phantom and i've become. genuinely baffled at the hatred for the episode Double Cross My Heart
i was actually dreading watching this because i remember hating this episode too, and now i don't remember why. why did i hate it again? fdjnskfnjk
throwing this in the tags because i'd love to have a conversation to see what people think. maybe there was something i missed, or for those who are in the reverse position i can share why i enjoyed it so much
#danny phantom#double cross my heart#i don't think i want my mind changed. i just want to know why people didn't like it haha#but i think it's a pretty fun episode:#the characters are well rounded. everyone has moments of conflict with different ways of addressing it and all had a dash of comedy#there's a shift in the relationship between the trio that does not have an easy solution (at least until the end lol)#while the episode has sam's relationship looked at through danny's POV sam never loses her agency#and in fact sam is an excellent character! she has every right to be mad that danny breached boundaries by stalking her date#she's allowed to explore and date other people. and her standing up for tucker when gregor called him a loser was awesome to see#you follow danny enough to have to ask whether there really is a connection between gregor and the giw. do we give in to his paranoia?#and the layers in the characters:#tucker having to choose between his friends and navigating how to best support them while still having his own authority#danny taking his jealousy and instead of asking why uses anger and hurts the people around him. where does this insecurity stem from?#sam despite rebelling against society shows how deep down she just wants to be liked and seen. she felt understood by someone new#i'll argue danny was hard to watch at times but when sam put her foot down he listened. he stopped using his powers in a selfish way#idk i just had a good time and was genuinely surprised. maybe my low expectations made me like it more#qulo talks#wait skulker didn't get his body back nvm!! plothole!!! bad episode!!!! /lh
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mossbone · 6 months ago
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*Takes a huge deep inhale*
I truly believe that the smarter you are, the smarter other people should feel after talking to you and I'm not kidding.
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hella1975 · 2 years ago
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yes im trying not to be so mean yes im working on my temper but under no section of my Healing Contract does it mention that these things must apply to my sister. in fact if you read the fine print it says im actively allowed to make her miserable. for my mental health
#she's so mean all the time like constantly telling me im stupid and shit#which probably didn't hit as hard before this econ degree but now every time she does it im just kinda like :/#and i laugh it off obvs bc am i fuck about to look put out by it#so she genuinely doesnt have any reason to stop bc ive not set any boundaries or communicated or yk. done anything correctly#i instead just let it frustrate the fuck out of me until one day im in a bad enough mood that i'll give as bad as she does#which i HATE bc as tough shit as she thinks she is i always think being mean - specifically the primary school way she does it -#is SO embarassing as a conflict method like girl 'you're stupid' is really the best you can come up with? bffr 😭#like when i say IM mean and SHE'S mean im talking about very different things#im mean less often than her but when i do it it's effective bc i literally catalogue people's insecurities and use them against them#like some fucking anime villian like it's actually uncomfortable to watch and i hate myself every time#whereas her way is effective bc it's all dumb comments ANYONE could make but she says them repeatedly until she wears you down#and of the two methods they're both shit but at least my way isn't cringe LMAO#so if i ever get so frustrated i revert to her method i just get v annoyed with myself like IM better than this she might not be but i am#and we've just been moving things in the garden with mum which is a flashpoint anyway#and me and my sister were just GOING at each other and it was all jokes until i said something she didn't like#and she was like 'what's your problem? it's fine when we're joking but you always take it too far' girl.#like i cannot accurately explain on here how ridiculous that statement is coming from HER#and if id said something actually horrible id get it but the convo was literally just#her: mum can i wear your watch for the chem ball coming up?#me: why do you need a watch for that?#her: ive got a dumb tan line on my wrist that i want to cover#me: i really dont think anyone is going to be looking at your wrists#THAT WAS IT LMFAO??? YOU HYPOCRITICAL LITTLE BITCH#ironically i had a field day with it like her saying that was the worst thing she could have done#latched onto it like a bloodhound fr my eyes must have lit up#i was like 'dont be such a baby' which is basically a fucking trigger word in our house#thought she was gonna hit me with a spade <3 peace and love on planet earth#godddddd i cant wait for her to go back to uni i HATE sharing a room i cannot escape her she's literally here as i type#i hope she knows im slagging her off to my niche online micro-community#hella goes home
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koishua · 7 months ago
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shining solo ep 8. my reaction rn 😐😐 took it a bit hard lmao
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#tp#very mixed feelings. as someone who associates herself with jeongwoo and having very similar personalities... this ep hurt a lot#idk idk#i mean i get it but i also absolutely do not get it#so many thoughts im taking this very personally what the heck#i cant really warm up to half of this part's girlies im sorry#i loved everyone on part one#as someone who also struggles with managing my social energy lvls... this was a slap in the face#bc my boy jeongwoo truly gave it his ALL the whole day and even managed to perform a couple songs for the girls#despite already having spent the whole day together#and his energy must have been SPENT already and then they pick him as MVP of the day and he has that 1:5 date with all of the girls#by himself!! which is so terrifying imagine being the one person who everyone's attention is on and you have to interact with these ppl#that you arent very comfortable with but you still try your best to give them a good time#AND THEN!! they give you NOTHING in return?? not even a recorder?? no jewel no recording nothing. just ignored like that by everyone#and i get that the girls dont know who's voting for who so they might have believed someone else was gonna give him a jewel or sth#but no one gives him anything (positive OR negative)#and yeah. he was absolutely shocked at the empty safe. i would have been too.#and why did they not give him a jewel y'all might ask??? IT WAS BC HE FELL SILENT DURING THE LAST BIT: THE DINNER#my gosh that's the part that i take offense to personally bc it's really really really difficult to always engage in convos with ppl#after spending the whole day with them already?? and your social battery is down so you quietly enjoy a simple meal??#and then all the girlies threw him away like that??#i mean yeah you're surrounded by sweet men who spend the day appealing themselves to you but come on??#i would have been so impressed by jeongwoo and thankful that he put that much effort in and would understand how difficult it is to#maintain it till the very end because not everyone has hyunsuk's boundless social energy#no offense hyunsuk i love you dearly#and also??? what's up with admitting that you lack some confidence upfront??#the girl's reasoning for giving yoshi the voice recorder was that he said he holds himself to a high standard and lacks confidence sometimes#and i get it. being confident is more attractive than someone who's always insecure and puts themselves down#(and makes the other person uncomfortable) but they were having an honest and deep convo when the thing he said in that convo was used#against him in the end? i would feel kind of betrayed too bc being able to admit that you feel insecure sometimes is a v brave thing to do!!
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tobuo · 10 months ago
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i wanna go on a date this year but dating apps are so humiliating and also Very Straight in my area so lmaooooooo rip
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neverendingford · 1 year ago
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#watched Can Me By Your Name and have so many thoughts and I scroll through my contacts and no one to speak them to#so many ears and none would hear my words in a way that matters#so I speak. knowing no one will hear. I speak. knowing no one will listen. better to know it will be ignored then hope against hope#human longing. heart hurt. knowing you share a moment. knowing that moment will pass. hoping it won't.#we speak about the harm of broaching a topic too early. derailed development and all that.#what about broaching it too late? picking the fruit when it has over ripened.#what do we gain by gatekeepinh emotional experiences. by telling people they are too young to experience what they already do?#to have parents who watch you struggle and explore and they step back and allow you to do so.#knowing that they have built a trust that you will hold onto even while in untested waters#what is it like? having parents secure enough to allow you to discover on your own?#what is it like to find someone with whom you share such a connection? even for a moment.#we hurt. we sit alone. we hope someone will sit next to us. we fear someone sitting next to us#and when you do make a connection.. everything in life conspires to pull you into another stream#I think I hate Timothee Chalamet because of what I connect to myself.#the traits that I have in common. viewed entirely masculine. I think it makes me insecure.#I see him and I fear others see me the same way. I got compared to some tech bro yesterday and I hurt to hear those words#to be viewed as someone else instead of myself#to be seen through a lens which does not represent my essence truthfully#translated into a language that has no word for me. I want to be understood in a system that will never represent me.#forever alien. something outside the world I live in.#I dissociated so hard a week ago and I have not recovered. the sense of alienation has not gone away because it is still here#I need to find queer community I need to find queer community I need to find queer community I need to find queer community
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Part 1
Writing practice for the most part
tw: manipulation
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The fox mother let out a few soft yaps, grabbing her cub by his scruff and back into the secure, hollow tree trunk. The cub protested, squeaking and yapping, but wasn't able to get away.
The skies above the land of Luminos were dark and cloudy. Dark as the night sky, yet no stars or moon provided light, the clouds preventing them from seeing the kingdom below.
Rain poured down, as it had been for a week now. The land was flooded with rainwater, lakes, rivers, and oceans rising. Countless habitats ruined the water drowning vegetation.
Animals of any species had taken refuge in places that were high above ground, knowing that dangers that lie below. Predator and prey put aside their differences, solely due to the fact that it would scarcely matter.
Places farther from the kingdom had locked down, doing their best to work amidst the rain that never ceased. All seemed to realize it had something to do with the kingdom of Luminos going silent, but no one dared venture out and see what happened.
Roads and pathways were flooded, turned to mud that dared to sink anyone who stepped on it. Not even the most trained of horses dared.
Luminos was no better. Unknown to all outside, the bubble around the kingdom stayed up. Its code working well to keep all the residents alive while in the perfect world Nimbus had crafted for her. Working effortlessly and feeding the Program that made it.
In the solarium, the second largest room in the kingdom, five bubbles were in it, with five beings inside. Queen Melody, Ambrosia, Lumiere, SMG8, and SMG9.
The stained glass windows didn't shine. Their colors that normally brought warmth and comfort to the room were cold. The depictions of music, dancing, and harmony on the windows still seemed true, but not in this world.
Nimbus found herself kneeling in the middle of the solarium, holding the conch shell in her paws, gazing at it silently. The rain pounded against the roof of the castle, reminding her of her choice a week ago.
She clutches it, form shaking. Was this right? Did she do the right thing?
Isn't this what you wanted? the words of the water construct ring in her mind again. I'm giving you the perfect life again. No Avatar code to worry about. No stress of having to mask.
Nimbus shudders, her eyes squeezing shut. Had she gone about this the wrong way?
She exhales before jolting, remembering something.
"Oh god, the meetups.." she whispers, tail puffing up. What was she going to do?!
She jolts again, hearing two knocks. Her eyes open as she gazes at the door. "Who..?"
It opens, and there slithers in the water construct. "Having fun?" it asks.
"I.. yeah.." Nimbus looks away. "But I.. I just realized something. I.. I have meetups with.. friends, outside of my universe from time to time. And.. the latest one is coming up soon."
"If you leave with the conch shell, the dream will stop." the construct informs her.
"Well that's.. that's not so bad-"
"Not so bad?" it cuts her off. "It is bad. Your perfect life will be gone forever, Nimbus. Making a conch shell like that takes time and effort. Time neither of us have."
"Well.. I just.." the Songbird looks at the floor. The water construct slithers over to her and wraps around her.
"Dear, think about it, really. You've obviously wanted this for so long. To have your friends, and no worry about your code!" it pats her cheek. "So, really, it'd be horrible if you left, and this ended. Don't even think about it, little one."
Nimbus hesitates. "Well, what about.."
"I'll go in your stead."
It slithers off of her, and it's both changes, taking shape of her. Nimbus watches, amazed, as color comes to its body, mimicking hers perfectly. It's eyes were cloeer, but she assumed that they were the same color as hers.
"And I'll make little constructs of your friends so that they can tag along." the water construct walks over to the bubble of SMG8 and slips its paw into the bubble, gripping the Guardian's arm, and accesses the memory banks.
It suppresses a flinch, feeling some demand it back off and to go away. It doesn't yield, though, and it copies the memory banks. It pulls its paw away and walks over to SMG9's bubble, repeating the same action.
With ease, it makes two constructs of the Guardians, inserting the memories, but keeps the constructs dormant.
It looks at Nimbus, who was watching, amazed.
"Go back to your little dream." it smiles. "I'll handle everything from now on."
Nimbus hesitates before nodding. She walks to the middle of the solarium and jumps, curling around the conch as she does. A bubble forms around her, and she falls asleep.
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Leto hums, satisfied, before opening its eyes and looking in the reflection. It immediately falters, seeing green eyes staring back. "That isn't her eye color!" it gasps, looking back towards the bubble.
It pauses before sighing. "Oh, whatever. It's not like anyone will notice. She keeps her eyes closed most of the time anyway!"
A flick of its paw had the two constructs of the Guardians turn to small water orbs. It tucks them into a pocket before walking out of the solarium.
It glances back, eyes narrowing.
It didn't remember Guardians having that secure of defenses. Something noticed it immediately. But, just like before, if those Admins knew what was good for them, they'd stayed out of Leto's business.
It makes its way into Nimbus's chambers and spots a calendar. It picks it up and smirks. Just a few days from now, the meetup was set to take place.
What fun.
Leto always wanted to see what it was like having so many Avatar in one place.
It flips back a few times and spots the location. SM64 universe.
It makes sure to remember that before turning and leaving.
Leto just couldn't wait to put on a show soon. It really wanted to see just how well it could fool others.
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gingerswagfreckles · 1 year ago
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Both things can be true. We don't have to ignore the damage the predatory plastic surgery industry is doing to young girls to support trans people and suggesting we do is misogynistic and incredibly dismissive. Refusing to acknowledge the blatant harm an industry is causing is not going to protect anyone. Should we also not address the opioid epidemic because bad faith actors may use it as an excuse to further limit access to already difficult to get pain treatment? Of course not. These are two issues that BOTH have to be addressed, and the fact that addressing one could be used as an excuse by some people to exacerbate the second is NOT a reason to intentionally ignore those who have been harmed by the opioid epidemic. Similarly, transgender people having increasingly limited options to access gender affirming surgery is NOT the fault of feminists campaigning against the plastic surgery industry, and suggesting that it is is not only bigoted, but balls to the wall insane.
Trans people are being increasingly restricted from accessing gender affirming care because of TRANSPHOBIA, not anti-plastic surgery activists. If TRANSPHOBES are going to use the increasing backlash against the beauty industry as an excuse to limit gender affirming surgeries, the solution is to fucking CALL THEM OUT ON THAT BULLSHIT and why it isn't the same. It's not to basically win their own fucking argument for them by implying that all gender affirming surgeries are merely cosmetic and then intentionally ignoring the dysphoria cosmetic surgeries CAUSE??
Look. I’m going to be honest with you. Adopting that hard anti-plastic surgery stance while trans people’s lives and right to transition is at stake is absolutely horrendous timing. Knock it off.
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bugsybaritone · 1 month ago
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I love remembering the last thing my former best friend and said to me, totally doesn’t make me want to scream and sob and rip my skin off
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stonesandswords · 5 months ago
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abnormallycreative · 6 months ago
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#i am in a constant state of all because of s random man#im muslim and i invited a handful of married muslim Women to a pole dancing class#mind you i felt this group was scary so i wasnt gonna do shit but another sister had asked me to teach and set it up#the majority id them said no bc they ahd to work and whatever which was fine im not finna stop you from making money#but then this one sister who tbh does not dress appropriately done said something to the Woman thats over the Muslim women#or so i thought bc it doesn’t seem like she would have an issue#turns out her bitch ass husband was the one who said something to the man thats over the men#and the man thats over the men told the women thats iver the women and she called me saying its against islam#newsflash it isnt#any she used very long quran quotes to say thay pole dsncing was satanic and scared away the sister who were going to go#AND THE SIS THAT ASKED ME TO SET IT UP#and since my number was on the flyer it make me look like the master mind behind this thats tryna lead women away from islam#so i go up the sis whos husband had a problem and apologized if i offended her#she wasbt offendsd in the slightest#it was her BITCH ASS HUSBAND THE WHOLE TIME#who you get a sis who dont dress right snd get mad when she wanna pole dance#you pick and choose how you want a woman to express her islam#it was a PRIVATE FUCKING CLASS FOR WOMEN#and this the same bitch ass nigga who immediately got her pregant and since she cant drive she barely been to the mosque#hes a control freak and is insecure bc hes ugly as FUCK and his wife oretty and so be checking her phone to see if shes texying other dudes#hes a bitch ass nigga#and his daddy a bitch too#and pole dancing isnt against islan#if i were to pole dance in front of men that would be fucked up but i would never do thay bc i really dont like these nigga#like a borderline hatred for them#the reason there an issue with it is bc of how peiple sexualize women and how every thing we do#so instead of bresking down the patriarchy and the shit thats creeping into islam before our eyes#you just tell Women not to do anything!!!#but to get married and have babies#so when we find something fun for us to do its a damn problem. anyway i start my pole teacher training in September. fuck thwse niggas
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